I am posting a link to this article because it really touched a nerve.
While there are plenty of articles about the grief and longing victims may feel after their break-up, I never felt that. Thanks to my ex's scorched-earth strategy to destroy me emotionally and economically, I agree 100% with the author in saying:
1. You Did NOT Break Me
2. You No Longer Have A Place In My Heart
3. You Taught Me A Lesson I Needed To Learn
4. I Don't Hate You, I Pity You (hate is too strong)
Go to A Conscious Rethink for to read the full article "4 Brutally Honest Things Survivors Of Narcissistic Abuse Want To Say To Their Abusers"